Almost everyone has been in your shoes trying to find a FTA satellite. Heck, when I begun, I didn't know I had to actually put the dish up on the pole and I found my self
aiming my dish towards the sky with my bare hands trying to find a signal.. LOL.. still can't believe it has been 2 years and now I feel like an expert.
To get the signal, you have to nail everything. From the pole to being perfectly straight and stable, to getting all your calculations right. Make sure you have a good compass. Tell us your zip and tell us some calculations you have made. It takes a lot of patience and small movements almost by the millimeters.