Now you might find it funny .. as an old man would say .. "Read before you post !!"
After I posted the question I browsed through the rest of the posts and VOILA!!! I discovered someone with exact same problem as me .. reason - cable too long from receiver to the motor. So I said ... let's try tat one too.
So, take a flashlight (is night here now) .. go out .... unscrew the cable from the house inlet and pass the thing in the house on the window hook it behind the receiver and bang .. the sky is coming down the pipe from all positions as the motor stops where it should
As Homer wold say ... Steady, steady, steaaadyyy ... DOH!!! is not that .. is your cable dude!!!
Well lesson learned // the cable DOES MATTER when you have a motor is not enough just a huge dish that gets you in trouble with the HOA
// you need a good and not too long cable too.